This is written to protect men (and, somewhat, children).It doesn’t matter what she says as far as “I don’t want another child” or “I can’t get pregnant” or “I’m using contraception” or “I wouldn’t ask anything of you.” Women lie or change their minds about this sort of thing all of time**, and even if she doesn’t, a court can make you be Daddy, financially anyway.7) You don’t want to be divorced.Especially since women are more likely to file for divorce, marrying a divorced woman means you are more likely to end up divorced from her.A few single mothers used a sperm donor, and those women think men are not important.Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. I have been dating Colombian women for over 6 years now.None of this is to say single mothers are bad people and certainly not to say all women do the things I listed.Some do, and men should protect themselves.*Women are “single mothers” for different reasons.This is not saying that having a child isn’t worth it, but this is not about YOU having a child. Her body was changed by something that is of no benefit to you.6) You don’t want to be a father.She has demonstrated already that she doesn’t know how to effectively use contraception OR otherwise doesn’t make good choices because she made children with the wrong guy (most likely)*, and has demonstrated that she WANTS to be a mother as she kept the child.If the child likes you, if you’re nice to the child, that’s no insurance against false accusations. These children are more likely to have mental and emotional problems.Social workers know that children in these situations are more likely to be abused by their mother’s lovers, so they’ll be more likely to believe you are a culprit.