Meanwhile, a pumpkin spice latte costs around .50, compared to or more for a glass of wine.When it comes to turn offs, those strong silent types might not be so desirable after all.Both sexes find descriptors like ‘quiet’ and ‘good listener’ to be negative qualities, while ‘spiritual’ has also been deemed universally undesirable.And indeed, the Plenty of Fish data showed that more than one in three men say they would be psyched if their date asked them to grab a pumpkin spice latte. Thoughtful ( 28%) This research all comes at a time when more men and women are looking for love online.Pumpkin spice and guacamole aren’t the only phrases that can get you a date. Fully 15% of American adults say they have used at least one online dating sites and/or mobile dating apps.Women who convey their get up and go seem to catch the eye of men more than those who describe themselves as ‘easy-going’ or ‘warm’.Instead, descriptors such as ‘creative’, ‘happy’, ‘outgoing’ and ‘optimistic’ all saw an increase in responses for the profiles that used them.5 words men might want to consider putting in their online dating profile: 1. Physically fit ( 96% more interaction than daters who did not use this word) 2. Two new surveys find that adding certain foods to your online dating profile may be the key to scoring more dates.Indeed, daters who use the word “guacamole” in their profiles get 144% more messages from potential love interests, according to a survey of 7,000 singles released Monday from dating site Zoosk.