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“Be his mother, be his friend, but don’t be his girlfriend. “He’ll have to understand the repercussions of his actions. To make sure that he understands and feels the full brunt of what will happen if he doesn’t abide by the rules of this here house. I’m not going to lock you in a cage, but society will. If you have to bite your tongue in half, do that before you start talking crap about his dad. But if you are there because you think that having this woman validates who you are as a person, then you’re misguided and misled.” No argument here. So I need you to understand the pros and cons of being a rebel. He’ll look at that as a reflection of himself and exactly who you don’t want him to be is who he’ll be because he thinks it’s in his DNA, but it’s bigger than DNA and that’s big.” “I wasn’t talking about interracial dating and that’s where everybody seemed to get it twisted. So it was pretty unfortunate what I ended up being on this platform where I don’t like interracial relationships. In the video below, Jill Scott also admitted to dating a white man before and also laid out what her idea of perfect man is, including someone who is “hungry for her love making often.” Go head Miss Scott!

“Be his mother, be his friend, but don’t be his girlfriend. “He’ll have to understand the repercussions of his actions. To make sure that he understands and feels the full brunt of what will happen if he doesn’t abide by the rules of this here house. I’m not going to lock you in a cage, but society will. If you have to bite your tongue in half, do that before you start talking crap about his dad. But if you are there because you think that having this woman validates who you are as a person, then you’re misguided and misled.” No argument here.

One thing I've come to understand, through my own relationship, is that for people who are really working at commitment, a relationship quickly ceases to be a political statement.

There is certainly part of me that feels my partnership with a black woman says something about me. The problem is that no committed person goes to bed with black spouse or a white spouse.

I'm a black dude hooked up with a black woman--but I don't sleep with "black people." "Black people" don't pay half of my rent.

"Black people" didn't take my son to tennis lessons this week.

But at some point brothers have to stop reeling off stats about college and prison, and resolve to be something more. I've met very few (if any) black women who need a lecture on asserting themselves.

We all have a moment, as black people, where we have to stop the process of bemoaning what the world thinks of us, and start asserting that which we think of ourselves. Which is why I find this constant "plight of the black woman" bit bewildering.

My position is that for women of color, this very common "wince" has solely to do with the African story in America.

Scott goes on to detail the history of black women, racist degradation, and beauty standards. But I think the key problem here is a common one--a kind of collectivist approach toward something as individual and private as marriage.

Source: WENN I think I could listen to Jill Scott talk all day long.

Not only does the 41-year-old Grammy Award winner have one of the most calming and melodic voices I’ve ever heard, she also drops a lot of knowledge whenever she opens her mouth.

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