But dating is an event that you choose for yourself, not one forced on you like losing a job, death/illness of a loved one, etc.Why would you want to make things harder for yourself deliberately?
Someone's gotta be the first to say it, so I guess it might as well be me: AA doesn't have a rule about dating.
Looking back, I was sort of following that rule, but I should have done it much sooner.
I think it depends on the person and how you are doing in your recovery.
Give yourself a break, concentrate on your recovery, then see if you are ready to 'date.' J M H O Love and hugs, __________________ God Bless You All As You Trudge The Road Of Happy Destiny (especially when you are trudgin thru alligators up to your butt) Sobriety: AA June 7, 1981 Codependency: Alanon June 7, 1984 I will agree...
You apparently don't know this, but AA has No Rules. The big book actually advocates having a well rounded life.