The opener is quite simply the first words that come out of your mouth.Here, you will learn what to say to women upon the approach and then what to say just afterward to transition smoothly into an interaction that feels natural and unforced.
They will likely be in conversation already, or at least thinking about something with a conversation going on inside their head. Think about how you do this in your own life; be aware of your interaction next time you join a group.
Her objection is projected onto the other guy, so you’ve got less chance of getting rejected yourself.
It also provides a false disqualifier, meaning something that hides the fact that you are hitting on her, ultimately making it easier to hook a group. If you’ve got a situation where you’re walking and a girl you’re interested in blocks your path, put your hand up as if to gesture her to stop. The key is the pause; it makes her think you’re going to say, “You are so beautiful” or some other clichéd statement. I used to use it when I first started, and the girls would laugh but still carry on walking afterward—so you need to quickly introduce yourself in order to extend the opening. Standard opener—can be delivered with a skeptical face.
When you have confidence from your success with other openers, or if you’re confident because you can tell the girl is attracted to you, bring out the direct opener and it’ll be fantastic.
You will receive super-fast results and women will think you’re incredible because of your boldness.